More information about a meeting
You feel the desire to surrender yourself to my deviant ways, but want to know more first. Read below...
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What exactly do you offer?
To me, nothing compares to the face to face experience. The physical connection that takes place, a heightened ability to read the body language of my submissive.
This is why I don´t offer online domination.
I offer session-based face to face hotel/dungeon meetings in and around Dusseldorf/Cologne, which match my inclinations, and which last between two and four hours. I am often in London and the surrounding areas.
Extended meetings are also available, where I visit you at our chosen venue for multiple sessions over a two or three day period. This allows me to really build intensity and challenge your limits like never before...
From Spring 2025 I will have a basement space available for longer term toilet training or imprisonment. For everything else, we meet at your rented hotel room, rented apartment or your home.
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If you are looking for tantric sex or prostate massage... hahahaha. You are in the wrong place.
What happens before & after?
An in-depth pre-negotiation should take place before we meet.
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This allows us to decide whether we are a match, and allows me to understand your preferences, limits, experience level, what you want to get out of the session and what your long term goals are. I prefer this to take place either via e-mail or over a coffee.
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Aftercare: Immediately after the session we have a cool down and clean-up. Depending on our needs, we may relax together in silence, or discuss the session in detail and plan for the next.
After the meeting, I remain available to contact indefinitely (within reason!) for you to tell me your feelings and feedback, and how you are doing physically. My responsibility to you doesn't end until you are totally recovered physically and emotionally.
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I love to exchange feelings, desires, preferences and ideas. Exchanges on either side of the session are done at eye-level. After this, we do what I want...
What are your cleanliness & hygiene policies?
I play consciously and responsibly. And this means I meet only when I know I am fresh and in good health. I expect the same of my counterpart. Please postpone our meeting if you have any known bacterial, fungal or viral infections, diseases, or if you are otherwise unwell, hungover or tired. In this case, you are more likely to keep my respect and we will meet when you are fine. For my recent sexual health test results, please ask.
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I ensure all toys and equipment are new and sterile, or reusable and sterilised. Where applicable, I will use a condom. I wash My hands with antibacterial soap before and during and wear gloves. I will bring plastic coverings, absorbent pads, everything appropriate for a conscious play and, where necessary, I can clean the area before and after with a 1:10 ratio of bleach to water.
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Where there is 'medical' play, a much higher level of caution is of course needed. For more information on how I play safely when it comes to sharps, including how I manage contamination / the transfer of BBPs or deal with a needle stick, please ask and I will gladly go into detail. For these sessions I usually require you to be HIV tested (I can also provide an on-the-spot schnelltest).
What kind of slave are you looking for?
I work particularly well with those who can be degraded, receive pain and are more focused on intense session-based play, rather than lifestyle domination. (I am happy to control your build up to our meeting in order to prepare you and maximise the experience, but, at the moment, I do not have the time to rule your sexuality 24/7 or allocate regular tasks.)
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Hard CBT is my passion.
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My life partner is a chastised masochistic sissy. So I have plenty of experience feminising men and treating them like sissy whores and painsluts. Something very close to My heart.
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I love to mess My slave up, intoxicating with My bodily fluids, and 'forcing' him to do and injest things 'against his will'. Those available for disgust play, toilet training and force feeding are welcome.
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I like if you also have stretchy holes and can be violated by My hands, dilators, dildos and strap-on.
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Newbies, you are welcome, so long as you do not need training on respectful manners and etiquette. My expectations are to be treated like a Lady, and given space to lead, from the beginning.
Tribute
Per hour (min two hours): 250EUR
Five hours: 1,200EUR
For very extreme play 100EUR additional per hour
Multi-day: On request
Travelling to your location: On request
Overnight: 1000EUR
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